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    Overcoming Fear in Writing: Insights from Neuroscience


    As a writer, growth is rarely a straightforward or simple process. Navigating the challenges that arise in pursuit of any goal—personal or professional—requires courage and resilience, and very few succeed to the utmost extent without a willingness to both seek out and accept support.

    Ally has spent many years working tirelessly towards her own goals, all the while helping others to reach their literary dreams, and she knows a thing or two about growth and the writing industry. She very recently had the opportunity to sit down with Dr. Irene O’Brian on her podcast, The Neuroscience of Coaching, for an insightful discussion of the intersection between neuroscience and the world of writing and coaching. Together, Ally and Dr. O’Brian explore the concept of self-defined success and discuss the mental approach to overcoming setbacks—whether they be external or self-imposed.

    Ally reminds us that forward momentum is an imperfect process: Rejection is inescapable in the pursuit of any undertaking and fear of rejection is only natural, but neither is insurmountable when faced with a growth mindset. After all, “mindset sets your expectations, and the way that you see a situation, the way that you interpret your experience, really creates your reality.” 

    Give the podcast a listen on Mirasee FM or on your favorite podcast platform: Episode 20: Embracing Fear in Writing to Build Resilience (Ally Machate).  

    And if you feel ready to face down your own fears and start on your literary journey, visit The Writer’s Ally to schedule your free consultation call with Ally. 

    Filed Under: Creativity Boost, Latest News, Publishing Business, Speaking/Teaching Tagged With: Ally Machate, author mindset, publishing advice, writing business

    From Ideas to Stories at AwesomeCon 2023

    The muse. The spark. The light bulb. Often the idea of conceiving a story is boiled down to these moments of inspiration–these ideas. An idea, though, is not a story–it’s only the starting point. And the great challenge any writer faces is learning not only how to come up with these ideas, but then how to craft, build, and shape them into fleshed-out, fully formed, start-to-finish stories. Returning for a fourth year to AwesomeCon 2023, the editors and authors at The Writer’s Ally bring you a panel discussion on the process by which those original concepts grow and develop into the books, films, graphic novels, and plays–the stories–we all know and love.

    Please join us for AwesomeCon 2023 in Washington, DC on June 16th-18th, 2023. Our very own Harrison Demchick will be leading our panel of speakers discussing the finer points of crafting your story. This panel will be on Sunday, June 18 from 2-2:45 in Room 209. The panel also includes The Writer’s Ally clients William Ray and T. C. Weber. You don’t want to miss the valuable industry insights you’ll gain from being at this event.

    For more information & to register click here.

    Filed Under: Creativity Boost, Latest News, Speaking/Teaching, Write Better Fiction Tagged With: Harrison Demchick, how to write, writing

    3 Keys to the Best Writer’s Retreat for You

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    This month we welcome as our guest blogger TWA client Lia Mack, novelist and activist and recently co-host to a brand new writer’s retreat in beautiful western Maryland. Don’t forget to share with your friends to earn serious brownie points (with them and with us <wink>) and leave a comment with your thoughts—we want to know your opinion!

    When I started writing my first novel, I signed up for a local weekend writer’s retreat. Don’t ask me where I got the nerve, as I had been a “closet writer” up until that point. Yet there I was, out of my closet, sitting with other writers, writing with other writers, learning about the craft of writing with other writers. Even admitting to being a writer!

    It was a weekend of total writing immersion and a pivotal point in my writing career. I’m not sure where I’d be today if I hadn’t taken that first real step toward taking myself seriously as a writer. Still in my closet?

    Honestly, I’m glad I took the chance. Not only was I able to be finally myself – the writer I knew I always had been – I also got to meet and talk shop with other writers, which taught me a powerful truth: I wasn’t alone. We were all eager to write and learn, yet full of self-doubt. And yet, being grouped together for that writer’s retreat weekend with all that glorious writing time and comradery empowered me to not only keep writing but also to better my craft and eventually see my dreams of publication come true.

    If interested in going to a writer’s retreat, just do a quick Google search and you’ll find high-priced, far-off getaways, affordable yet unique local writing retreats, and everything in between. And each one’s offerings – from gourmet meals to yoga to hiking to polar bear plunges even – are just as varied as the writers who attend them. So here are three keys to making sure you choose the best writer’s retreat for you.

    1. Time to Write

    Time to write is the biggest reason writers attend writing retreats, and therefore it’s the main focus of almost every writer’s retreat out there. Life is hectic and most days it’s convenient to push your writing off until tomorrow. And tomorrow. And again, tomorrow… So it’s easy to see the lure of quantifiable writing time.

    Make sure the retreat has set aside enough time for you to actually write by looking closely at its schedule. Be sure it includes enough group or solo writing time to allow your creative juices to really start flowing! Consider the Rocky Mountain Writing Retreat in Colorado, which boasts 30 hours of writing time during its three-day retreat. Or The Genuine Writer’s Retreat in Maryland, which hosts both group write-ins as well as individual writing time in a unique tiny house village (full disclosure, I’m co-hosting this event, and I’d love to see you there!).

    2. Explore the Craft of Writing

    Although most writer’s retreats do focus on offering uninterrupted time to write, most host writing workshops, writing craft classes, and seminars as well. And while they are similar to what you may find at a writing conference, the ones at a writing retreat are much more intimate and geared toward participants’ needs. Some retreats even include one-on-one editorial sessions and work-in-progress critiques! Having the opportunity to have someone in-the-know read your writing and offer constructive feedback is crucial to discovering ways to better your craft.

    And there are writing workshop types aplenty. For example, maybe you’re interested in plot, dialogue, character development and all that jazz. You’d want to look for a retreat that’s specifically geared toward fiction writers. Or maybe you’re interested in the publication process and how to build your author platform. You’d then want to find a retreat that will help you learn all the ins and outs of social media, websites, and the how to’s of getting published.

    Or maybe you’re wondering just how other writers find the time to write? That’s why I developed the “KISSing Isn’t Just For Romance Writers” workshop for The Genuine Writer’s Retreat in May. Although I love kissing and romance, this one’s all about “KISS” – as in Keep It Simple Silly – and includes writer-friendly ways in which participants fine-tune their motivation and discover how they can fit in time to write well after the retreat has ended.

    3. Meet Other Writers

    True, some writers would rather hide in a cabin alone in the woods and write all day. I count myself among them most days, as that’s the best way I know how to write – without interruption. However, if you’ve ever spent time with other writers, as I did at my first writer’s retreat, you quickly discover just how empowering and inspiring it can be to meet with like-minded people in this solitary endeavor.

    Meeting other writers, sharing in the experience and life of a writer can feel like coming home to people who, like me, have been a “closet writer” for years. If you ask me, meeting other writers face to face, not just on the Internet, is THE BEST part of any writer’s retreat. You’ll feel like part of a community. And you have the potential of making life-long writing friends!

    Create Your Own Writer’s Retreat

    If you’re interested in creating your own writer’s retreat, I’ve included some useful tips below.

    • When choosing the location and accommodations for your writing retreat, keep in mind the vibe and value you want to bring to your attendees. Some retreat centers are all-inclusive, which makes planning easy! But all-inclusive could easily equate to pricey, so be sure to stay aware of the overall price you’ll be asking of your attendees if your aim is to keep it affordable.
    • When deciding on your writing retreat’s schedule of events, keep in mind the overall writing value you want to give attendees. Is the point of your event to have writers meet other writers and build their confidence? Or are you having a retreat so people can meet well-known authors and have a chance to ask them all about their writing process? There are a great many ways to bring value to your attendees, so be sure to hone in on the exact advantage you want to deliver.
    • Don’t forget the wise words from Stephen King’s The Shining… “All work and no play make Jack a dull boy.” Attendees need to eat to fuel their writing sessions, and they need a chance to blow off steam and commiserate with their fellow writer attendees. So don’t forget the food and fun! That’s what getting together is all about.
    • So whether you’re near the beach or up in the mountains, think of ways to use the natural beauty and amenities of your location to tie into your retreat. Hiking trails on the property. Yoga in the morning. A beautiful breakfast spread in the community house. And ensure the weather is conducive to outside treks as well unless you’re planning a skier’s writing retreat (and if that’s the case, sign me up!)

    When deciding on the right retreat for you, it’s easy to get caught up in the wonder and excitement of it all. And you should be excited. You’re officially thinking of yourself and your writing as being worth the investment, which is key to further developing your craft.

    Good for you, writer!

    Whatever your desire and dream, I hope this article will help you make it happen. And if you’re tiny house-obsessed and can’t wait to get in some valuable writing time, strengthen your skills and sit around a warm campfire to talk about writing stuff, please join us at The Genuine Writer’s Retreat! As a bonus, if you register before the Early Bird discount ends on March 15th, my co-host or I will read and critique up to 10 pages of your current work in progress! I know how valuable it was to me as a new writer to be able to not only share my work with other writers, but also to get useful, constructive feedback on ways to better my craft. Therefore, I want to extend the same opportunity to you! Learn more here.

    Whatever you choose, I hope the writer’s retreat you decide to invest your time and money in is all you hope and need it to be.

    In addition to Lia Mack’s debut novel Waiting for Paint to Dry, her creative non-fiction has been seen in such publications as The Washington Post, Nickelodeon Jr. Magazine, Advances in Bereavement Magazine and Nesting Magazine. She is also a guest blogger at Award-Winning Writer/Director Angela Shelton’s Survivor Manual, a blog dedicated to inspiring and empowering sexual abuse survivors. A born and raised military brat – Go Air Force! – Lia was born in Kansas grew up in many places such as Michigan, Texas, Colorado, Italy, and Maryland. She currently resides in Maryland with her husband, two children, and three American Rat Terriers.

    Filed Under: Creativity Boost, Latest News, Write Better Fiction, Write Better Memoir, Write Better Nonfiction Tagged With: creativity, finish your manuscript, Genuine Writer's Retreat, Lia Mack, nurturing creativity, writer's retreat, writers conference, writing, writing retreat

    Harrison Returns to ChessieCon – November 2017

    ChessieCon is going to have its annual workshop this coming November and we are very excited to announce that our very own Harrison Demchick is one of the guests.

    Harrison will be participating in numerous panels and is also returning as a guest judge for the Turkey Awards.

    If you’re heading to ChessieCon, check out Harrison at the following sessions:

    Friday, 24th of November

    04:15 PM – 05:15 PM Summoning your muse — Where Writers Get Ideas
    Non-writers often ask authors about this, as if writers have access to some secret stash of story fodder. The panel will divulge their methods for coming up with story ideas, and for passing the time until some come along. Harrison will be joined by fellow authors Danielle Ackley-McPhail, Meg Eden, Alanna Morland, and Jay Smith.

    09:15 PM – 10:15 PM Group Discussion: Writer’s Block
    What do you do when the words stop flowing? Come discuss your strategies, rituals, and coping mechanisms for writer’s block. Harrison will be joined by Kim Headlee.

    Saturday, 25th of November

    11:15 AM – 12:15 PM Turkey Awards Panel
    Harrison will be participating in the humorous and entertaining Turkey Awards Panel once more, this time with Steve Kozeniewski, Timothy Liebe, Don Sakers, Michelle D. Sonnier.

    12:30 PM – 01:30 PM PowerPoint Improv
    Volunteer presenters pick a slide deck they’ve never seen before from a list of titles on a variety of topics, and improv a comedic or serious presentation loosely based on the slides for up to 5 minutes. Audience participation comes with each presentation’s brief Q&A session! As improvisations accumulate, we can build off each others’ ideas. Harrison will be joined by Sarah Elkins, J.L. Gribble, Cristin Kist, Steve Kozeniewski, and Valerie Mikles.

    SPECIAL EVENT 01:45 PM – 04:00 PM Building a World: The Genre Fiction Workshop

    Working on a sci-fi novel? Fantasy? Horror? Want to be sure you’re on the right track? This year, ChessieCon will host “Building a World: The Genre Fiction Workshop”, open to up to six writers working in the diverse world of speculative fiction. Led by developmental fiction editor and literary horror/dystopian novelist Harrison Demchick (The Listeners, Bancroft Press), Building a World is an opportunity to sit down with fellow authors to analyze, critique, and improve those crucial first 10,000 words of your novel-in-progress. If you’re serious about making sure that the early chapters of your novel engage your readers—if you want your characters clear, your story engaging, and your world compelling and tangible—then this is the workshop for you. To sign up, send an email to programming@chessiecon.org.

    Sunday, 26th of November

    11:15 AM – 12:15 PM Serious Subjects in Children’s Media: How Do You Approach Them and How Cautiously?
    Not everything made for children is 100% sunshine and rainbows. Children’s media has plenty of memorable, if sometimes traumatic, moments that cover heavy real-life subjects or dark themes such as death, loss, evil, and sometimes even horror. Society seems to be of two minds; many say that these subjects are too scary for children and they should never be exposed to it, while some, such as animator Don Bluth, believe that children can handle anything as long as there’s a happy ending. What side of the fence are you on? Do you believe there’s a middle ground? Where do you draw the line, and how carefully should you tread around it? Harrison will be joined by Mary Fan, Tamora Pierce, Michelle D. Sonnier, and Mary Spila.

    There will be readings, games, concerts, book signing and a lot more. To see the full schedule, check it out here.

    ChessieCon will be in Radisson North Baltimore Hotel (formerly North Baltimore Plaza Hotel) on November 24-26, 2017.

    For more info and for registration, you may visit their site, or contact Jo Hogan at jo@chessiecon.org.

    harrison-demchick-book-editorHarrison Demchick came up in the world of small press publishing, working along the way on more than two dozen published novels and memoirs, several of which have been optioned for film. He is an award-winning, twice-optioned screenwriter, and the author of literary horror novel The Listeners.  He’s part of The Writer’s Ally team as a developmental editor of fiction and memoir, for which he’s currently accepting new clients.

    Filed Under: Creativity Boost, Get Published, Latest News, Publishing Business, Speaking/Teaching, Write Better Fiction Tagged With: ChessieCon, fantasy, Harrison Demchick, how to write, presentations, science fiction, writing

    Writing a Book: 3 Amazing Tips to Get Started—an Interview with Ally Machate

    Writing a book to share your message, experiences, and knowledge with the world can be an amazing journey and a great asset for your business! Some studies claim it’s the best way for an expert to prove her authority in a niche. But how do you find the right idea to write about? How do you turn that idea into a book people will resonate with and want to buy?

    Thanks to Carrie Green of the Female Entrepreneur Association, I was able to answer this question and more. Carrie invited me as her guest expert for a 10 Minute Masterclass interview, during which I shared “3 Amazing Tips to Get Started Writing A Book.” During the brief but super detailed conversation we covered:

    • choosing the right idea for your book (instead of trying to cover every topic)
    • how to take your business to the next step and grow your audience
    • the benefits of checking out your competition
    • and a lot more!

    As per her routine, Carrie and I also issued a challenge to listeners to help them jumpstart their book projects: I encouraged the audience members to go out and investigate what other books are competing against theirs and analyze them for strengths, weaknesses, audience insights, and ideas that can help them improve upon their own book concepts.

    Dozens of people chimed in with comments and more advice and thoughts, which was awesome because I love a good ongoing conversation. It was also great to hear what kind of book projects people are working on and what struggles they’ve overcome. It’s so important to share your experiences with your fellow authors and entrepreneurs so we can all learn from one another.

    Do check out the full interview, which is very short and chock-full of insights and advice. You can view the complete video in their archives and join in the conversation via Facebook!

     

    Filed Under: Creativity Boost, Latest News, Speaking/Teaching, Write Better Nonfiction Tagged With: Ally Machate, carrie green, female entrepreneur association, nonfiction, publishing advice, start writing, start writing a book, writing tips

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